*成功人士的6个自我激励技巧
导语:世界上永远都不缺少榜样,每一个榜样背后,都有他成功的途径和方法。在通往成功的道路上,永远不会是光明和坦途,面对荆棘和坎坷,我们怎样才能激励自己坚持下去呢?
1.找到一个理由
Have a cause
“在激励里,没什么比理由更有力了。这些理由能在困难当前时把你激发起来。它能让你去做一些看起来不可能的事。”
I can't think of a more powerful source ofmotivationthan a cause you care about. Such cause can inspire you to give yourbest evenin the face of difficulties. It can make you do the seeminglyimpossible things.
尽管也有其他一些动机理由能临时刺激你,与你休戚相关的那些目标能无限期地激发你。这是一口永不干涸的激励泉水。什么时候你觉得没动力了,就去找找自己的目标以获得动力的泉水。
While other causes could inspire youtemporarily, acause that matters to you can inspire you indefinitely. It's aspring ofmotivation that will never dry. Whenever you think that you run outofmotivation, you can always come toyour cause to get a fresh dose of motivation.
2.要有一个梦想 还要够大
Have a dream. A big dream.
“能摸多高我就长多高,能探多远我就走多远,能看多深我就看多深,能做多少梦我就做多少梦。”
Only as high as I reach can I grow, only asfar as Iseek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much as Idream can I be.
你的目标动力对于激励来说是个挺有力的来源,但还是太抽象。你得把它具体化成一个梦想。想象一下未来的世界会怎样。想象一下人们怎么生活工作。如果你无的放矢,根本没法激励自己,所以做做白日梦还是挺重要的。想想打篮球的人。如果根本没有篮筐去投,谁还有动力啊?我看就没有了。他们需要目标。你也是。不然你白日梦拿来干嘛。
Your cause is a powerful source ofmotivation but it'sstill abstract in nature. You need to make it concrete inthe form of a dream.Imagine how the world will be in the future. Imagine howpeople will live andwork.Having a dream is important because it's difficult tobe motivated if youdon't have anything to shoot for. Just think about peoplewho play basketball.Will they be motivated to play if there is no basket toaim at? I don't thinkso. They need a goal. You need a goal. That's what yourdream is for.
但光有白日梦还不够。这个梦得足够高远,那才能激励你。它得既现实主义又不是可以一蹴而就的。它还得能迫使你离开安逸的环境去大展身手。
But just having a dream is insufficient.Your dream mustbe big enough to inspire you. It must be realistic butchallenging. It muststretch your ability beyond your comfort zone.
3.要有饥渴感
Be hungry
“‘想要’什么那还不够。你一定要对它充满渴望。你的动力一定要足够霸道,那才能跨过总是出现在路上的那些障碍。”
Wanting something is not enough. You musthunger forit. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order toovercome theobstacles that will invariably come your way.
要想真正得到激励,你得不仅仅是“想要”,还要是“渴望要”。仅仅是普通欲望没法帮你渡过困难,因为你又不是非要不可。很多时候,有没有饥渴感就是将军和士兵的差别。
To be truly motivated, you need to havehunger and notjust desire. Having mere desire won't take you through difficulttimes since youdon't want things badly enough. In many cases, hunger makes thedifferencebetween the best performers and the mediocre ones.
怎样才能有饥渴感?这里就得看你的动机目标和梦想了。如果你又有关心的目标又有和之相关的白日梦,你就该有一种饥渴感才对。如果你认为自己正在丧失这种饥渴感,你所要做的就是再一次连结起目标和梦想。让它们继续激发你并给你带来饥渴。
How can you have hunger? Your cause andyour dream playa big role here. If you have a cause you care about and a bigdream related toit, you should have the hunger inside of you. If you thinkthat you are losinghunger, all you need to do is to connect again to yourcause and dream. Let theminspire you and bring the hunger back.
4.别管别人
Run your own race
“我又不想比别人跳舞跳得好。我只想着跳得比自己好而已。”
I do not try to dance better than anyoneelse. I only tryto dance better than myself.
要想灰心丧气,拿自己跟别人比可谓立竿见影。就算一开始你豪气冲天,一和别人比,你马上就缴械投降。
Comparing yourself with others is aneffective way todemotivate yourself. Even if you start with enthusiasm, you will soon lose yourenergy when you compare yourself with others.
千万别这么做。你跑自己的,管别人呢。拿自己和别人比,就像让一个游泳的和一个跑步的用同一时间标准斗快。都不一样,天晓得你怎么比较出来?
Don't let that happen to you. You have your own race sohow other people perform is irrelevant. Comparing yourself withothers is likecomparing the performance of a swimmer with a runner using thesame timestandard. They are different so how can you compare one with the other?
自己才是自己的唯一敌人。这也是你唯一要战胜的对手。你做到最好了吗?
The only competitor you have is yourself.The only oneyou need to beat is you. Have you become the best you can be?
5.走下去
Take one more step
“成功无止境,失败还有救;重要的.是要有勇气玩下去。”
Success is not final, failure is not fatal:it is the courageto continue that counts.
当你半路遇到困难,你可能想过要溜掉。你可能觉得难于上青天。你可能觉得自己白日梦做得太离谱。但就在这里,成功者和失败者的不同点就凸显出来了。尽管他们遇到同样的麻烦,有一点使成功者与众不同:玩下去的勇气。
When you meet obstacles along the way,there could bethe tendency to quit. You may think that it's too difficult tomove on. You may think that your dream is impossible to achieve. But this is where you can seethe difference between winners and losers. Though both ofthem face the samedifficulties, there is one thing that makes the winnersdifferent: the courage to continue.
困境里,你应该集中精神向前迈多一步。别想着怎样才能跑完。别想着前面还有多少障碍。只想着你的下一步。
In difficult situations, just focus ontaking one morestep forward. Don't think about how to complete the race. Don'tthink about howmany more obstacles are waiting for you. Just focus on taking the next step.
6.让往事如烟飘走
Let go of the past
“搞定每一天,你就能做任何能做的事。”
Finish each day and be done with it. Youhave done what you could.
随你相不相信,你的过去在扰乱军心上可谓极具杀伤力。你还不知道,就给它扯了后腿。它给你背上了太重的负担。
Believe it or not, one of the bestdemotivators is yourpast. Your past can drag you down before you realize it.Your past can give youa heavy burden on your shoulders.
不过,好消息是这些负担你根本用不着去背。拿下来扔掉吧。过去你可能犯了错,可能因为自己的所做所为让人大失所望。但都过去了,再怎么样你都没法弥补了。
The good news is it's a burden you don'thave to carry.Take it off your shoulder and leave it. You might make mistakesin the past. Youmight disappoint others with what you did. But it’s over. It'salready in thepast and there's nothing you can do about it.
今天就是一个新的一天,你又有机会重新来过了。不管过去你多么不走运,你仍然前程似锦。别让那些过去的负担束缚了你吖。
Today is a new day and you have the chanceto startagain. No matter how bad your past might be, you still have a brightfutureahead waiting for you. Just don’t let the burden of the past stop you.